By Land or by Sea???

Before my son started kindergarten, our vacation schedule was fairly regular… 1 week away in April (NOT Easter Week) & one week in October (to celebrate our anniversary).  We usually selected 1 cruise and the other trip would be to an all-inclusive in the Caribbean.  Now things have changed… between school, soccer, baseball, my husband’s football schedule – I’m lucky to squeeze in one good vacation a year.  And the question always comes up whether to cruise or to stay put for the week at a beautiful resort.

Our Celebrity ship docked in Charleston, SC

Our Celebrity ship docked in Charleston, SC

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“Aft Balcony” view leaving NYC.

I LOVE to cruise.  To me, there is nothing better than looking out (from a large, stable, floating island) & seeing that beautiful aqua blue water all around me. The food is amazing & the ports provide unspoiled beaches & plenty of shopping.  A real win-win in my book.

Unfortunately, it’s gotten expensive with 3 full price fares, plus 3 higher-than-ever airfares. We’ve sailed on Carnival, Norwegian & Celebrity (our top choice) and usually base our trip on dates & itinerary, not so much on a specific ship.  A balcony cabin has become a “must-have” (the Aft Balcony being ideal) so I can take advantage of that water view the entire time. We eat & drink our fair share, make a few deposits at the Casino, see a couple of shows and my son takes advantage of the pools and the Kid’s Club.  It’s all good, as they say.

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The Ocean Sand & Blue Resort in Punta Cana.

All-inclusives are also amazing… pay for everything up front and then enjoy your week, wallet-free. Our introduction to this vacation style was on our honeymoon (almost 17 years ago) to Sandals in the Bahamas.  It was wonderful, and we went on to try their “Beaches” resorts in both Negril and Turks & Caicos.  Over the years we’ve found many comparable AIs (All-Inclusives) in Mexico and the Dominican Republic that offer the same concept for a whole lot less. The resorts are safe & beautiful, with amazing beaches, pools & activities.  You can literally do everything, or simply relax & do nothing, while looking out over impeccable grounds & a breathtaking seascape.

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Balcony view from the Paradisus Cancun.

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The Melia Caribe Tropical in Punta Cana – so nice I’ve been 3 times!

So how does one choose???  I love the “unpack once & visit multiple destinations” that a cruise offers, but sometimes it’s also nice to visit an island for more than 8 hours & really get a feel for the climate & culture.  The food is amazing either way (cruises – guaranteed, all inclusives need to be higher end).

Both offer entertainment… although a cruise will provide a more professional showing.  As for the beaches?  You can sample multiple spots on a cruise or stay on one beautiful stretch that you can visit all day, every day, while at a resort.  The pools will be a lot more inviting at an AI, although the newer, bigger ships are competing with wave pools, crazy water slides & even surfing.  If you need a spacious room, with a luxurious bathroom and tons of closet space, you’ll be better off with an AI, unless of course you can splurge on one of the cruise lines top notch suites.  You really don’t need to spend another dime once you arrive at your AI (other than a tour or 2 & some trinkets).  Cruises, on the other hand, do not include soda or alcohol, and they add a pre-set, per person gratuity to your final bill, so remember to factor that into your decision.

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Our Carnival Ship docked in Nassau.

It really is a tough call…  I love them both!  My son prefers a cruise & my husband is happy to stay put at one resort.  The winner this time around?  I just booked a cruise for November, on the Carnival Pride, leaving from Baltimore.  It became a matter of the perfect dates, a great price & a few good stops… Can’t  wait!!!

Rehoboth Beach, Delaware? Loved It!

Looking for a quaint little East Coast beach town with amazing restaurants, a wide range of shops, a couple of arcades for the kids & a nice, clean beach with an equally pleasing boardwalk? This could be the place!

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The Irene on Maryland Ave

We had a great 3-night visit here over the long Easter weekend… Unfortunately, the weather wasn’t quite as warm or sunny as I would have liked, but it all worked out.  We were lucky enough to be able to stay at my cousin’s awesome beach house, “The Irene” which provided the perfect locale.  Less than 2 blocks from the water and just a short walk over to the center of town – no need to drive anywhere!

Healthy Breakfast!

The gazillion restaurants in Rehoboth range from unique fine dining, to seafood houses to your basic pizza places, with everything in between.  We enjoyed a nice, healthy breakfast one morning at The Green Man Juice Bar & Bistro on Wilmington Ave, just 1 block from the beach.  I had a freshly pressed “green” juice and then an awesome Scottish Smoked Salmon plate – totally delicious!

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Amazing…

Our favorite meal, which turned out to be a lunch, was at Modern Mixture… This easy to miss spot right on Rehoboth Ave, offered an eclectic menu combining Mexican with Middle Eastern & a little bit of the tropics.  Our Falafel appetizer was one of the freshest I’ve ever had and my Chiliquilles platter was literally licked clean.  Top that off with a fresh margarita & exceptional service, and this meal rocked it!!!  Definitely worth a stop if you’re ever in town.

We did a good amount of shopping on the main strip, visiting candy stores, surf shops & even a great Tea & Spice store, but in the end, we spent most of our time at the Rehoboth Toy & Kite Company.  Their smaller location is right on Rehoboth Ave, but be sure to visit their larger store on the north end of the boardwalk.  The owners are incredibly nice and they have a great selection of merchandise for both kids & adults. They even hosted a free Easter Egg Hunt, complete with the Easter Bunny, bagels and mimosas for the adults – marketing genius!

beachAnd of course there is the beach… Being off-season, it was wide open with only kite-flyers and a few shell seekers but it appeared long, wide & clean. There’s a great boardwalk that runs the whole length, with a few shops & restaurants in the central & northern sections and beautiful homes lining the southern end.  I had a nice run one morning and was able to enjoy the beautiful view almost all to myself!

As much as I loved it here, my only concern about this little paradise is how crowded it must get in the summer. There is only one main road leading in & out from Route 1, so the traffic must be crazy.  And there were already waits at some of the popular restaurants, even at this time of year.  If possible, I’d say the best time to visit would be June & September when the weather is great, but the full flow of tourists is still at a minimum. 🙂

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Paradisus Cancun – Review Time!

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This year’s “5th Annual” Girls Getaway took us to the Paradisus Cancun, where we enjoyed 4 nights of “Royal Service” in the Adults Only section of this all-inclusive resort. Located in the heart of the Hotel Zone, the Paradisus is a quick 15-minute ride from the airport and an easy cab ride to shopping, restaurants & plenty of activities.  This narrow strip of land features the Caribbean Sea on one side (for beautiful sunrises) and a lagoon on the other (for picture perfect sunsets).  Having stayed at the Melia Caribe Tropical in Punta Cana last year, we were familiar with this Spanish hotel chain and looked forward to a few days of well-deserved, adult pampering.

This resort was definitely a winner for us.  Despite the weather being a little cooler than we like, everything went smoothly and we were well taken care of.  Not sure it would satisfy the requirements I have for a “family” trip, but for an adult getaway, it was perfect.  There’s a lot to share, so I’ve broken this review down into categories…

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The Royal Service Lobby

CHECK-IN:  Quick & easy, once we were escorted to our beautiful, “Royal Service” lobby.
This Adults-Only section is located in Pyramid 5 at the northern end of the complex and can only be accessed (by room key) to those staying there. We checked in, enjoyed a glass of champagne, had a quick snack from the meat, cheese & fruit bar that was available daily, and taken to our room.  In addition to being child-free, Royal Service guests are also assigned their own personal “butler.”  We lucked out with “Tony,” who took the time to explain the services available to us, gave us a rundown on the restaurants & booked our “Bail Bed” at the pool.  During our stay, he took care of most everything we needed (including our daily wine delivery). 🙂

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The breathtaking view from our room.

THE ROOM:  Large, with everything we needed PLUS an amazing view.
We booked a “Royal Service Ocean View Junior Suite” and ended up in a spacious, 2nd floor room with 2 double beds, a sitting area with a couch, coffee table & another round table with 2 chairs. There was a flat screen TV (that we never turned on) & a fancy coffee maker which actually turned out to be an espresso maker that we couldn’t figure out.  The closet was good size but there were only 3 dresser drawers which seemed odd. The bathroom was large with plenty of counter space, a separate “toilet room” & a big tub/shower.  They also supplied a full array of toiletries.  The real highlight, however, was the huge balcony.  An unbelievable view of palm trees and aqua-blue water provided the perfect backdrop for coffee, reading or wine.

beach-cocoPOOLS & BEACH:  Gorgeous!!!
The Royal Service section has its own pool area, complete with Bali Beds (which are included, but require a reservation), an outdoor restaurant for breakfast & lunch and its own bar. The private beach was very clean (minus some daily seaweed) and offered plenty of palapas & chairs. This strip is great for walking and you can go a long way in either direction (which we talked a lot about doing, but never did).  The ocean, despite being at “red flag” status for our entire stay, was clear and inviting.  Definitely not the normal calm waters of the Caribbean, but fun waves to jump around in as long as you were paying attention.  Waiters serve drinks both on the beach & by the pool for true “royal” service.  There are several other pools within the resort complex, but I can’t comment as we only stayed in our special section.  The only place we did venture out to was the beach bar, Coco’s, where we found a warm, sunny, wind-shielded spot on the deck to enjoy our cocktails and the beautiful view.

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My daily lunch from the buffet 🙂

RESTAURANTS:  Overall, good & very fresh.  Really impressed by the main buffet!
There are technically 11 restaurants here, but with only 4 nights, we chose what we thought would be our favorites.  Breakfasts & lunch are served mainly at the buffet (definitely get a table outside), and offer plenty of variety… absolutely no complaints here. Made-to-order omelets, fresh juices, meats, breads & Mexican entrees are just some of the items available in the morning.  For lunch, we feasted on fresh seafood, pastas, vegetables and much more. The “Market Grill” which is at one end of the open-air section is available for lunch & dinner and offers pizza, salad & grilled meats off an a la carte menu.  For a sit-down dinner, you need reservations.  In Royal Service, they can be made up to 2 days in advance at the reception desk or thru your Butler.  We ended up at the buffet on our 1st night and were pleasantly surprised by the quality and variety of the offerings.  The next night, we tried “Vento,” the Mediterranean & Tapas restaurant, which was good, but not quite as good as I had hoped – the selections were just average, nothing too exciting. We went to the Latin-themed, “Fuego,” which was also good, but we experienced very slow service.  Our favorite was “Mole,” the traditional Mexican restaurant, complete with a live, wandering Mariachi Band.  “Bana” is the sushi spot and was highly recommended but we ran out of nights.  There is certainly something for everyone and for the most part, the quality, presentation & selection were above average for an all-inclusive.

BARS:  Little disappointed here…
No central, spacious lobby bar, where everyone congregates (and where we normally like to hang out before dinner).  And nothing right on the beach, like a casual “snack shack” where you can just hang out & grab a beer.  There is “The Avenue” which faces the water from inside but was weirdly spread out and usually quite crowded, with very little seating. There is a small bar outside called Coco’s (mentioned above) which was nice during the day, but too cold at night to enjoy (at least during our stay).  wineThe bartenders at all venues were friendly, but only seemed to offer up the standard drinks (Pina Coladas, Cosmos, etc) and there were no “drink menus”.  I had seen some unique cocktails posted on the hotel’s Instagram page & was disappointed when the bartenders had no idea what I was talking about.  The Royal Service lobby had its own fully stocked bar every evening, where you could make your own drinks or be assisted by a staff member, with all top shelf liquor.  This is also where I discovered my favorite red wine, a delicious, Tempranillo – Cabernet blend!

NIGHTLIFE/ENTERTAINMENT:  Not too exciting…
We usually seek out a little nighttime activity, but didn’t really find it here.  They had an evening show outside The Avenue Bar each night (right on the floor, not in a theater setting and again with little to no seating) and there is a bar called the “Red Zone” that apparently had a DJ but it must not have started until well past 11pm.  There was an amazing “trio” one night in the Royal Service lobby, singing the likes of Josh Groban & swooning the ladies with glasses of champagne but that was all we found.  Our main goal on this trip was to relax so this wasn’t a biggie, but it’s nice to hit the dance floor on at least one of our nights on this annual trip and it didn’t happen here.

SPA/GYM:  The Spa was beautiful and the staff were very friendly.
We did a “Chocolate Scrub & 50 Minute Massage” that was awesome & very reasonably priced.  We also tried the complimentary “Water Experience” which was an interesting compilation of showers, pools & stones.  Unfortunately, every body of water in this spa was FREEZING. They called it Room Temperature but we called it torture (even the shower where we rinsed off from our body scrub was bone chilling).  Not sure what’s up with that but it was definitely a disappointment.  As for the gym, they have a full set up, including a variety of fitness classes.  I only made it once, apparently at prime time (9:30am), as all the treadmills were taken & I ended up on the dreaded elliptical for my workout.

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What we LOVED:
–  The daily spread of food, wine & cocktails in our “Royal Service” lobby.
–  The fresh guacamole, salsa & chips from the Royal Service restaurant by the pool.
–  The Internet was available everywhere, even on the beach.
–  The Ocean… I’ve never seen more shades of blue in one body of water.
–  Tony.  Butler service is where it’s at!

What we LACKED:
–  Needed more outdoor access.  Within the common areas of the 5 Pyramids, there is very little view of the outdoors.  The walkways in between each section offer stunning views through the windows and the insides of the towers themselves are flowing with vegetation, Koi ponds, lanterns, etc, but the feel was that of a big mall or a standard Hyatt anywhere in the US.  When I escape to a tropical destination, I need to be able to see & feel it at all times. That’s why I’m there!
–  Live, local music.  Other than the mariachi band in the Mexican restaurant, we really didn’t come across any other local-feeling performances during our stay.  When in Mexico, I want to hear Spanish!  Our pool area played wonderfully serene, spa-type selections, but maybe in the afternoons they could jazz it up with a bit of local flavor.
–  Lounge chairs on our balcony.  It’s a HUGE space out there and they only offered 2 regular chairs & a small table.  Plenty of room to stretch out…
–  A regular coffee maker in the room.  Our espresso maker didn’t function properly & honestly in the morning, I just want several big cups of the real deal.

All in all, we had very relaxing trip with great service, respectable food & an ideal location. I’d definitely recommend this spot and can’t wait try another resort in this fantastic chain!

TAKE NOTE!  When you go thru Customs in Cancun, they will give you back a little stub from one of the forms you filled out on the plane, KEEP THIS!  You need to hand it back in at the airport when you check in for your flight home.  Lose it & you’ll have to shell out $30!  I think this is a new policy as I don’t remember this from my past few trips here…

Living in the Moment

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As I sat in the warm sun, staring out at this spectacular view the other day, I suddenly realized that I was truly and fully “living in the moment.” Just looking at the aqua blue water, listening to the sound of the crashing waves and feeling a total warmth on my body, I was completely engaged in my surroundings.  I didn’t care to read my book or check-in online or do anything else that would distract me from the sheer pleasure of what I was experiencing at that moment in time.  It was incredibly powerful.

It’s not often that I get to do this at home.  My mind is always racing, full of all the things I need to do or facing the guilt of what I should be doing. I guess that’s what makes getting away so important to me.  To be able to just sit, undistributed, in the most beautiful and serene places and actually appreciate that special time.

Cancun was absolutely gorgeous and a full review of our resort, The Paradisus, will be coming in the next few days.  Hopefully, I have enough shots of the incredible beach to help everyone “live in the THAT moment” with me!

Snow Day

My own “home beach” in Ocean Grove looked gorgeous this afternoon once the snow finally stopped and the sun came out.  The cold was invigorating… although not quite enough to join the brave soul I saw paddle boarding through the icy surf!IMG_20150217_231232